When you hear yourself saying, “It’s all YOUR fault” or “It’s not MY fault”…..stop……rewind and take a second look at the situation. With the firm knowledge that you create your entire Earth-plane existence, go over the challenge again and see what part your energy has played in the situation. More often than not, you will see that you have been in denial regarding your true feelings and actions. The Universe will never make you feel ‘bad’ about the decisions you make, however, it asks that you take full responsibility for them. When you are able to accomplish this, you are well on your way to becoming what you are truly supposed to be; whole and healthy within yourself. ~ Creator 

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