What does it take to become a whole person?  The Universe has an infinite number of answers and each of them depends on what you feel you are, what you need and who you want to become.  In your current society, you have been taught that becoming whole means reaching out to another to receive what you feel is missing.  In fact, it is the exact opposite.

My dearest child, rather than looking outside yourself, you must go within.  Those complexities are known only to you!  Asking others to fill something for you is like being a contestant on a game show.  They will always be venturing a guess.  Yes, they may get it right on occasion but, they will never have all the answers.  Giving to yourself may be perceived as selfish when, in fact, it is the greatest act of self-care in which you will ever indulge.  Working on and moving toward becoming whole is your responsibility and a gift that is one of the most important things you will ever accomplish. ~ Creator

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